As a bisexual woman , I spend a lot of time considering the positive and negative qualities of both men and women. Each group has their pros and cons, but there are definitely some days when guys become such a hassle that I think, "Screw it, it's girls only for me from now on. When we've been burned one time to many by men and we've said, maybe even jokingly, how much easier it would be to become a lesbian and never have to deal with them again. You might be thinking, but wait! It doesn't work that way! That's right!
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When it comes to major life accomplishments, I've always been a late bloomer. I definitely was late to lesbian life and gay girl dating. But when I came out, it was a fresh start and I was full of faith and hope that I would find love. I always knew I was attracted to girls but was never able to make a love connection with a girl. Finally, I decided I could and would make it work with a guy.
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I was at my cousin's bridal party and a woman I hardly knew kept asking me what was happening in my life. My response was 'I bought cats yesterday' 'cause I actually had. Joe [my now-boyfriend] popped up and she said, 'Can I swipe him for you? He's handsome.
Meeting women to date and marry is notoriously difficult for women seeking other females. Not only is same-sex love and marriage between two women so rarely represented in the media—there are still no equivalent rom-com meet cutes for women meeting women today—but the dating pool for queer women is just smaller roughly 5 percent of American females identify as LGBTQ. A friend of mine once ran a calculation in jest to prove that she and her wife statistically were meant to be, based on the exquisitely small percentage of potentially single, queer, Jewish women within her age group, alongside a smattering of other arbitrary qualities she liked. I know it sounds corny—but it is true!